Like I said earlier, I love to talk about sex, and as I've talked to women I've learned that there are more women that don't have orgasms or very few orgasms than I could believe!! Myself, I'm very blessed, maybe even a freak of nature, LOL, I have multiple orgasms pretty much everytime! Now I know women that have great sex and are very satisfied with 1 or 2 orgasms, but for those of you that are NOT satisfied, please read!!
Sex is meant to be fun and pleasureable for BOTH people involved!! Again, I don't know what it's like to be a man, but ladies if you're not having fun, something is wrong! It could be your partner, but it might have alot to do with you! Trust me, that was my case! When you aren't comfortable with yourself or sex it can make sex seem like a chore! You can have sex everday and still not be comfortable with it!! Sex is DIRTY but in a wonderful way!!! Myself, I'm pretty freaky, but you don't have to be to have fun, but I DO think you're missing out if you haven't tried it!!
It can be hard experimenting when you're single, but if you have a friend with benefits that you see often try to open up to them!! It can be hard to discuss sex with other people, but ladies believe it or not, men are MORE turned on by a woman that wants to "PLAY" and knows what she wants!! Men are simple creatures to please, but when you're playful, it's 10 times easier!! Great example: My "BUDDY" and I have been having sex off and on for about 2yrs now, in the begining we would hook up and have sex it was pretty good sex, but in the last 4mths we've opened up to each other and the sex is amazing !!! I kinda made him have sex the way I love to have sex (kinky), but TRUST me, he LOVES it too!!
Sometimes you have to "Teach" your partner, but you have to figure out what turns you on and makes you cum before you can expect your partner to! Being single you can find out what makes you hot, you just have to let go!! Get tipsy if you have to to loosen up(not drunk or fucked up), the more you're focusing on, the less you're going to enjoy sex!! You have to let yourself "go with the flow"! But if you can't let go with someone, try it by yourself!!
Sunday, April 27, 2008
Saturday, April 19, 2008
Single Woman Having Sex
Here we are, living in 2008, where make-up and media rule the world! But, that's not what WE'RE here to talk about!! Because SEX rules my world, I'm here to talk about being a young, single, woman, and having sex!
Now we've all been told by parent's and grandparents, "Back in my day", but today sex is a common conversation! It's so common it's in movies and tv sitcoms, hell it's even in the work place, at least mine!! Some people think you shouldn't talk about sex or masterbation when you're a woman, so it makes it that much more exciting for me!! I'm usually the first person to bring it up in a converstation!! But don't get me wrong I use to only talk about it with friends and still blush!
With that being said, I am a 26yr. old , single woman that loves sex!! I started having sex when I was 13 and until about 2 or 3 years ago, wasn't comfortable with sex!! How crazy does that sound?! Now, I have no shame in being a single woman that enjoys having and talking about sex! I think if you're ashammed of anything you do, you shouldn't be doing it!!
I know women and men have very different views on sex and I can't speak from a mans point of view, so guys feel free to butt in, but here are somethings when it comes to being single and having sex...When your single it can be hard to find someone you enjoy having sex with, ecspecially if you're like me, I hate the club/bar scene, hell there are times I hate to leave my house period!! Luckily, right now I have a friend-with-benefits/fuck buddy, that knows me and what I like, but it took sometime!! I've done the online thing, and the one-night stands, trust me, they happen, usually more than once!! When you're single you're allowed to have fun, just be careful!! Ladies we don't have to rely on men to buy condoms!! For back-up (suprise guest you might bring home) have some condoms or most stores have female protection (most only keep you from getting pregnant, not from STD's). The other reason I say be careful is not everyone is looking for the same thing! You might only be looking for a fuck-buddy but the person you sleep with might be looking for more! At first have fun with it unless you feel the other person wanting more, but at some point you both need to be clear what your looking for!!
Being single gives you the freedom to expiernce life and I believe the more you expiernce, the better off you are!!! So with that being said any comments, questions, or concerns...I try my best to please!!! LOL Have a GREAT day!!! Happy Hunting!!
Now we've all been told by parent's and grandparents, "Back in my day", but today sex is a common conversation! It's so common it's in movies and tv sitcoms, hell it's even in the work place, at least mine!! Some people think you shouldn't talk about sex or masterbation when you're a woman, so it makes it that much more exciting for me!! I'm usually the first person to bring it up in a converstation!! But don't get me wrong I use to only talk about it with friends and still blush!
With that being said, I am a 26yr. old , single woman that loves sex!! I started having sex when I was 13 and until about 2 or 3 years ago, wasn't comfortable with sex!! How crazy does that sound?! Now, I have no shame in being a single woman that enjoys having and talking about sex! I think if you're ashammed of anything you do, you shouldn't be doing it!!
I know women and men have very different views on sex and I can't speak from a mans point of view, so guys feel free to butt in, but here are somethings when it comes to being single and having sex...When your single it can be hard to find someone you enjoy having sex with, ecspecially if you're like me, I hate the club/bar scene, hell there are times I hate to leave my house period!! Luckily, right now I have a friend-with-benefits/fuck buddy, that knows me and what I like, but it took sometime!! I've done the online thing, and the one-night stands, trust me, they happen, usually more than once!! When you're single you're allowed to have fun, just be careful!! Ladies we don't have to rely on men to buy condoms!! For back-up (suprise guest you might bring home) have some condoms or most stores have female protection (most only keep you from getting pregnant, not from STD's). The other reason I say be careful is not everyone is looking for the same thing! You might only be looking for a fuck-buddy but the person you sleep with might be looking for more! At first have fun with it unless you feel the other person wanting more, but at some point you both need to be clear what your looking for!!
Being single gives you the freedom to expiernce life and I believe the more you expiernce, the better off you are!!! So with that being said any comments, questions, or concerns...I try my best to please!!! LOL Have a GREAT day!!! Happy Hunting!!
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