Enjoying Sex

Like I said earlier, I love to talk about sex, and as I've talked to women I've learned that there are more women that don't have orgasms or very few orgasms than I could believe!! Myself, I'm very blessed, maybe even a freak of nature, LOL, I have multiple orgasms pretty much everytime! Now I know women that have great sex and are very satisfied with 1 or 2 orgasms, but for those of you that are NOT satisfied, please read!!

Sex is meant to be fun and pleasureable for BOTH people involved!! Again, I don't know what it's like to be a man, but ladies if you're not having fun, something is wrong! It could be your partner, but it might have alot to do with you! Trust me, that was my case! When you aren't comfortable with yourself or sex it can make sex seem like a chore! You can have sex everday and still not be comfortable with it!! Sex is DIRTY but in a wonderful way!!! Myself, I'm pretty freaky, but you don't have to be to have fun, but I DO think you're missing out if you haven't tried it!!

It can be hard experimenting when you're single, but if you have a friend with benefits that you see often try to open up to them!! It can be hard to discuss sex with other people, but ladies believe it or not, men are MORE turned on by a woman that wants to "PLAY" and knows what she wants!! Men are simple creatures to please, but when you're playful, it's 10 times easier!! Great example: My "BUDDY" and I have been having sex off and on for about 2yrs now, in the begining we would hook up and have sex it was pretty good sex, but in the last 4mths we've opened up to each other and the sex is amazing !!! I kinda made him have sex the way I love to have sex (kinky), but TRUST me, he LOVES it too!!

Sometimes you have to "Teach" your partner, but you have to figure out what turns you on and makes you cum before you can expect your partner to! Being single you can find out what makes you hot, you just have to let go!! Get tipsy if you have to to loosen up(not drunk or fucked up), the more you're focusing on, the less you're going to enjoy sex!! You have to let yourself "go with the flow"! But if you can't let go with someone, try it by yourself!!